Unit 14

Mealtime English: Diets, Preferences, and Complaints

Workplace English for Nursing Assistants

Meet Mrs. Okafor

Watch the video about Mrs. Okafor. Watch what happens at her meals.

Case Study Video — Mrs. Okafor

Mrs. Okafor — The Tray She Pushed Away

Talk about it

  1. Give FOUR possible reasons Mrs. Okafor might be refusing food that have nothing to do with the cooking.
  2. What questions would you ask HER to find out which it is?
  3. Why must her liquids be thickened, and what could happen if you gave her thin liquids?
A caregiver sits beside an older man at a small table with a tablecloth, offering a spoon while they talk.

Figure 14.1 — More Than a Meal: Sit down. Go at their speed. A meal is care.

Word Set A — Nutrition Basics

NutrientWhat it doesFound in
Carbohydrates Broken down into blood glucose — the body's energy Simple: sugar, syrup, honey. Complex: vegetables, beans, whole grains
Protein The building blocks of cells; builds muscle and repairs tissue Meat, poultry, eggs, fish, nuts, beans, soy
Fat Needed to live; carries fat-soluble vitamins Unsaturated (good): fish, nuts, plants. Saturated (limit): butter, lard, cream
Fiber Not digested. Soluble lowers cholesterol; insoluble keeps bowels regular Soluble: peas, beans. Insoluble: whole wheat, bran
Water Regulates temperature, carries nutrients and waste 48–64 oz a day for most adults

Practice 1

1.1 Match the nutrient to its job

  • 1. Carbohydrates
  • 2. Protein
  • 3. Unsaturated fat
  • 4. Soluble fiber
  • 5. Insoluble fiber
  • A. The building blocks of cells; builds muscle and repairs tissue
  • B. Aids digestion and promotes regular bowel movements
  • C. Broken down into blood glucose — the body's energy
  • D. The "good" fat; liquid at room temperature (fish, nuts, plants)
  • E. Binds with fat and helps lower cholesterol (peas, beans)

1.2 Good or limit?

  1. HDL cholesterol is the _________________ (good / bad) cholesterol.
  2. LDL cholesterol is the _________________ (good / bad) cholesterol.
KEY RULE — The Three Thickened Liquids

1. Nectar — thinnest; like maple syrup. Can be drunk from a cup.

2. Honey — thicker; flows off a spoon in a ribbon. Must be SPOONED.

3. Spoon-thick — thickest; like pudding. Must be SPOONED.

Follow the product directions exactly for how much thickener to add — or use pre-thickened drinks. Too thin is an aspiration risk; too thick is hard to swallow and reduces how much the client drinks.

You may see newer labels using the international IDDSI system (slightly / mildly / moderately / extremely thick). Learn the words your facility uses — and if a label and an order do not match, ask.

Three panels compare liquid thickness: nectar pouring like syrup from a cup, honey falling off a spoon in a ribbon, and spoon-thick holding its shape like pudding; the last two are marked spoon only.

Figure 14.2 — The Three Thickened Liquids: Nectar, honey, spoon-thick.

Diet progression after surgery or illness

Five steps in a row with arrows: NPO, clear liquid, full liquid, soft, regular, with a small note that bowel sounds come before clear liquids.

Figure 14.3 — Diet Progression After Surgery: NPO first. Then step by step back to regular food.

NPO → clear liquid → full liquid → soft → regular.

A post-surgery client stays NPO until the bowel starts working again (the nurse listens for bowel sounds, or the client passes gas). Clear liquids = anything you can see through: water, clear soda, apple juice, tea, broth. A clear-liquid diet is not enough to live on — only a day or two.

If a client does not tolerate a new diet level, tell the nurse. They will be moved back a step.

When a client cannot eat at all: TPN (total parenteral nutrition) goes into a large vein through a central line — temporary, to rest the gut. Enteral feeding goes through a tube surgically placed into the stomach — for longer-term needs.

Practice 2

2.1 Which diet?

(regular / DASH / diabetic / low-cholesterol / mechanical-ground / thickened liquids / NPO / clear liquid)

  1. A client with missing teeth who chokes easily.
  2. A client just back from surgery, before bowel sounds return.
  3. A client with swallowing problems, assessed by a speech therapist.
  4. A client with high blood pressure — more fruit and vegetables, less sodium.
  5. Water, apple juice, tea, and broth only.

2.2 Thickened liquids

  1. Name the three consistencies, thinnest to thickest.
  2. Which TWO must be spooned rather than drunk from a cup?
  3. Which one is like maple syrup?
  4. Who assesses a client before thickened liquids are ordered?

Therapeutic Diets

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Food and fluids are important for a client’s health and safety. Healthcare workers must follow each client’s diet order, measure intake correctly, watch for dehydration, and help clients eat safely. They also need to recognize signs of swallowing problems and aspiration. When a client complains about food, listen carefully, ask questions, take action when possible, and report the concern.

Therapeutic diets
DietWho it is for / what it means
RegularNo restrictions.
DASHFor blood pressure: more vegetables, fruit, beans, nuts, low-fat dairy; less sodium, saturated fat, added sugar.
DiabeticControlled carbohydrates. Nurse checks blood sugar BEFORE the meal; you watch intake closely and report it.
Low-cholesterolHeart disease, diabetes, stroke history. Lean meat or plant proteins (beans, peas, tofu).
Mechanical / ground (easy-to-chew)Missing or broken teeth, dementia, choking risk. Food is ground so less chewing is needed.
Thickened liquidsSwallowing problems (dysphagia). Ordered after a speech therapist assesses the client.
NPO (nothing by mouth)Nausea/vomiting, or after surgery until the bowel wakes up.

When a client cannot eat at all: TPN (total parenteral nutrition) goes into a large vein through a central line — temporary, to rest the gut. Enteral feeding goes through a tube surgically placed into the stomach — for longer-term needs.

Practice 3

3.1 Which diet?

(regular / DASH / diabetic / low-cholesterol / mechanical-ground / thickened liquids / NPO / clear liquid)

  1. A client with missing teeth who chokes easily. ________________
  2. A client just back from surgery, before bowel sounds return. ________________
  3. A client with swallowing problems, assessed by a speech therapist. ________________
  4. A client with high blood pressure — more fruit and vegetables, less sodium. ________________
  5. Water, apple juice, tea, and broth only. ________________

3.2 Tube feeding: True or False

Fluids, Intake & Dehydration

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An older adult with labeled callouts pointing to dry mouth and lips, warm dry skin, no tears, confusion, weakness, and low urine output.
Figure 14.5 — Signs of Dehydration: See these signs? Report them to the nurse.
A group of items that count as fluid: a drink, soup, ice cream, gelatin, and a Popsicle, above a measuring cup marked in mL and a crossed-out oz symbol.
Figure 14.4 — It Counts as Fluid: Liquid at room temperature counts. Record in cc or mL.

Most adults need 48–64 ounces of fluid a day. Some clients are on a fluid restriction and must have less. Dehydration happens when the body loses more fluid than it takes in — commonly from vomiting or diarrhea — and it is life-threatening for older adults and small children.

Practice 4

4.1 Fill in the blank

  1. Intake is always recorded in ________________ or ________________ — never in ounces.
  2. Most adults need about to ounces of fluid a day.
  3. ________________ occurs when the body takes in less fluid than it excretes.

4.2 Does it count as fluid intake? Write "Yes" or "No."

  1. Ice cream
  2. Mashed potato
  3. Gelatin
  4. A Popsicle
  5. Toast
  6. Soup

4.3 Dehydration

List FIVE signs of dehydration.

______________________________________________________________

Feeding a Client Safely

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During the meal

A seated caregiver feeds an upright client, with callouts showing a half-full spoon, alternating food and sips, and a wrist test for temperature.
Figure 14.6 — Feeding Safely: Sit down. Sit them up. Half a spoon. Test on your wrist.
A dinner plate drawn as a clock face with food items labeled at twelve, three, six, and nine o'clock.
Figure 14.8 — The Clock-Face Plate: Describe the plate like a clock.
Visually impaired clients — the clock face

Set the items within reach and describe the plate as a clock: "Your salad is at six o'clock. Your apple pie is at nine o'clock." You can also guide their hand gently to each item.

Some clients see only one side of the plate. With their permission, turn the plate partway through so they can reach the other half.

Words you will hear

Aspiration means food or drink going into the airway instead of the stomach. You will hear this word at mealtimes — and if someone coughs, gurgles, or sounds wet when they speak, say so straight away.

Practice 3

3.1 True or False

3.2 Choose the best response

1. To test whether food is too hot, you should

  1. touch it with a clean finger
  2. drop a small amount from the spoon onto the inside of your wrist
  3. ask another healthcare worker to taste it
  4. assume it is fine if it is not steaming

2. A client in bed should be fed in which position?

  1. flat on the back
  2. side-lying
  3. high-Fowler's
  4. semi-prone

3. Setting up a meal for a client who is visually impaired, you should

  1. feed them entirely to save time
  2. describe where each item is using clock positions
  3. put everything on one side of the plate
  4. let them find things themselves

4. A client coughs and gets a wet, gurgly voice while eating. You should

  1. give a sip of water to clear it
  2. keep going but more slowly
  3. stop, keep them upright, and tell the nurse
  4. lay them down to rest

Handling a Complaint

The Most Complained-About Thing in the Building

Ask any healthcare worker what clients complain about, and the answer is food. It is cold, it is bland, it is not what they ordered, it is not what their mother used to make. Families complain too — usually about weight loss.

There is a reason for that. When you have lost your home, your independence, and most of your choices, dinner is one of the few things left that is supposed to be yours. So a complaint about soup is often not about soup.

A complaint is information

"This is disgusting, I'm not eating it" can mean:

A sore mouth or ill-fitting dentures • no appetite from a medication • loss of taste and smell with age • nausea • depression or grief • the food genuinely is cold • or "I want somebody to listen to me"

Every one of those matters clinically, and you will only find out which it is by asking.

The five steps

The five steps for handling a complaint
StepWhat you doExample
1. ListenLet them finish. Do not interrupt or defend.(nodding) "Mm."
2. Say sorryFor the experience — not necessarily for a fault."I'm sorry, that's not good enough."
3. AskFind out what is actually wrong."Is it the temperature, or the taste?"
4. DoWhatever you actually can — and only that."I can warm it up right now."
5. TellReport it, so it can be fixed properly."I'll let the nurse and the kitchen know."
Five numbered panels in a row show a caregiver listening, apologizing, asking a question, warming a plate, and reporting to the nurse.
Figure 14.9 — The Five Steps: Listen, say sorry, ask, do, tell.
🗣 Speaking Toolbox: Taking a complaint well

Apologizing without blaming anyone

You can be sorry that something happened without saying whose fault it was. It is the difference between "I'm sorry your dinner was cold" and "The kitchen messed up again."

🗣 Speaking Toolbox: Apologizing for the experience

Practice 5

5.1 Say it

Write what you would say in each situation.

  1. A client says their soup is cold.

    ______________________________________________________________

  2. A client says it hurts to chew.

    ______________________________________________________________

  3. A daughter says "Nobody here is feeding my mother properly."

    ______________________________________________________________

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  1. What must happen before a post-surgery client can start clear liquids?
  2. In what units do you record intake? Name three foods that count as fluid.
  3. How much fluid should most adults have per day?
  4. Name four signs of dehydration.
  5. How do you test the temperature of food? What must you never do?
  6. How full should the spoon be? What do you alternate?

Dialogue Practice

Read these dialogues out loud with a partner.

Two people having a scripted workplace dialogue.

Dialogue 1"It's stone cold"

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Mr. Halloran, 77, is normally easy-going. Tonight he pushes his plate away as you come in.

Mr. Halloran: Take it away. It's stone cold. It's always cold.

You: (putting down what she's carrying, touching the plate) You're right — that's not warm enough. I'm sorry, that's not good enough.

Mr. Halloran: Well. It isn't.

You: Is it just the temperature, or is there something wrong with it as well?

Mr. Halloran: No, the food's all right. It just sits there getting cold while you lot do everyone else.

You: I can warm this up right now, or I can bring you the soup instead — which would you rather?

Mr. Halloran: Warm it up. It was decent enough.

You: Two minutes. And you're near the end of the round — would it help if I brought yours first tomorrow?

Mr. Halloran: ... That would help, yes.

You: Then I'll do that. Thank you for telling me — I'll mention it to the nurse and the kitchen too.



Two people having a scripted workplace dialogue.

Dialogue 2"It's disgusting"

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Mrs. Ferreira, 84, is on a mechanical-ground diet after a stroke. For three days she has eaten almost nothing and is sharp about it.

Mrs. Ferreira: It's disgusting. All of it. Take it away.

You: I'm sorry you're not enjoying it. Can I ask you something?

Mrs. Ferreira: What.

You: Is it the taste, or the way it looks, or something else?

Mrs. Ferreira: It's mush. It all looks the same. I don't know what I'm eating.

You: That's a fair point. Nobody told you what it was, did they?

Mrs. Ferreira: Nobody tells me anything.

You: Right. That's chicken, that's carrot, that's potato. Which of those would you actually like to start with?

Mrs. Ferreira: (pause) ... The carrot.

You: The carrot it is. One more thing — does it hurt anywhere when you chew or swallow?

Mrs. Ferreira: It aches. On this side. Since the weekend.

You: Since the weekend. Thank you — that's exactly what I needed to know. I'm going to ask the nurse to look in your mouth.

Roleplays

Work with a partner (or the practice bot).

An older woman with an untouched meal tray.

Role Play 1The same complaint every night (builds on Dialogue 1)

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Situation

Mrs. Bergqvist complains every single evening that her dinner is cold. Tonight she is angry about it and says she has told four people already and nothing has changed.

Your Goals:

  1. Let her finish without interrupting or defending.
  2. Apologize for the experience — not for the kitchen.
  3. Ask ONE question to find out if temperature is the whole problem.
  4. Offer something you can genuinely do tonight.
  5. Offer something that changes tomorrow.
  6. Say thank you for telling you, and say who you will report it to.
An older man refusing a plate of food.

Role Play 2"I'm not eating that" (builds on Dialogue 2)

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Situation

Mr. Nowak, 79, is on a pureed diet after mouth surgery. He has eaten almost nothing for two days and just says "No. Take it away." He has lost weight. Find out what is actually going on.

Your Goals:

  1. Do not argue or persuade him to eat.
  2. Ask at least TWO different questions to find the real reason.
  3. Ask specifically about pain when chewing or swallowing.
  4. Name the foods on the plate for him.
  5. Offer a genuine choice about where to start.
  6. Report the intake AND the reason together.

Cumulative Review

Multiple Choice

Vocabulary Review Tip

Cover the answers, try from memory, then cross out the choices you know are wrong.

1. Fluid intake must be recorded in

  1. ounces
  2. cups
  3. cc or mL

2. Which of these counts toward fluid intake?

  1. toast
  2. mashed potato
  3. gelatin

3. The thinnest thickened liquid, like maple syrup, is

  1. honey
  2. spoon-thick
  3. nectar

4. Honey-thick and spoon-thick liquids must be

  1. drunk through a straw
  2. spooned into the mouth
  3. diluted with water first

5. A client just back from surgery is NPO until

  1. they say they are hungry
  2. the nurse hears bowel sounds or they pass gas
  3. 24 hours have passed

Case Study: Mrs. Okafor

Read the case. Answer in complete sentences.

The Case: Mrs. Okafor

Mrs. Okafor is 86 and had a stroke six weeks ago. She is on a mechanical-ground diet with nectar-thick liquids. For the last four days she has eaten very little and pushes her tray away, saying "It's horrible, take it away." She has lost three pounds. Today her daughter arrives and says, loudly, "She's wasting away in here and nobody is feeding her."

1. Give FOUR possible reasons Mrs. Okafor might be refusing food that have nothing to do with the cooking.

______________________________________________________________

2. What questions would you ask HER to find out which it is?

______________________________________________________________

3. Why must her liquids be thickened, and what could happen if you gave her thin liquids?

______________________________________________________________

4. How should she be positioned for meals, and what do you watch for while she eats?

______________________________________________________________

5. Write exactly what you would say to the daughter — without blaming Mrs. Okafor or the kitchen.

______________________________________________________________

6. Write the sentence you would use to report all of this to the nurse.

______________________________________________________________

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Instructor Answer Key

Unit 14 — Mealtime English: Diets, Preferences, and Complaints

This unit introduces the language and care practices used during meals. Learners study nutrition, diet progression, therapeutic diets, texture-modified foods, thickened liquids, tube feeding, fluid intake, dehydration, safe feeding, and common food complaints. A case study about Mrs. Okafor connects stroke, dysphagia, weight loss, food refusal, and family concern. Through illustrated readings, flashcards, knowledge checks, dialogues, and role-plays, learners practice investigating why a client is not eating, asking about chewing or swallowing pain, offering choices, describing the meal, apologizing without assigning blame, referring questions appropriately, and reporting both intake and the reason for refusal.

Practice 1–4 and Review

Practice 1.1: 1. mechanical/ground 2. NPO 3. thickened liquids 4. DASH 5. clear liquid. Practice 1.2: 1. False (that is enteral feeding; TPN goes into a central line) 2. False — ask the nurse to stop the feed first, and tell them when you are done.

Practice 2.1: 1. cc, mL 2. 48, 64 3. Dehydration. Practice 2.2: 1. Yes 2. No 3. Yes 4. Yes 5. No 6. Yes. Practice 2.3: any five of — listless behaviour, dry mucous membranes, warm dry skin, no sweat or tears, low urine output, confusion, weakness.

Practice 3.1: 1. False (sit down) 2. True 3. False 4. True 5. True 6. True. Practice 3.2: 1-b, 2-c, 3-b, 4-c.

Practice 4.1: answers vary — each reply must acknowledge the complaint, avoid defending the kitchen or the staff, and offer something concrete. (1) e.g. “You’re right, that’s not warm enough — I can heat it up now or bring the soup instead.” (2) e.g. “I’m sorry it hurts. Where does it hurt when you chew? I’ll tell the nurse.” (3) e.g. “I’m sorry that’s what you’ve walked into. She ate about a quarter of lunch today; I’ve recorded it and I’ll ask the nurse to come and talk with you.”

Multiple Choice: 1-c, 2-c, 3-c, 4-b, 5-b.

Case Study — Mrs. Okafor (sample): (1) Any four: a sore mouth or ulcer, ill-fitting dentures, no appetite from medication, nausea, depression or grief after the stroke, loss of taste, fear of choking, or not being able to identify ground food. (2) “Is it the taste, or the way it looks?” “Does it hurt when you chew or swallow?” “Have you gone off food generally?” (3) After a stroke she may have dysphagia; thin liquids can go into the lungs and cause aspiration — and some clients aspirate silently, with no cough. (4) Sitting upright — a regular chair if possible, or high-Fowler’s in bed; watch for coughing, a wet gurgly voice, watering eyes, and food pocketed in the cheek; check the mouth before and after. (5) Answers vary — score: acknowledge the feeling, give recorded facts with amounts, say what has been done, offer the nurse, and NO blaming of the client, the kitchen, or colleagues. (6) Answers vary — must contain the amount AND the reason, e.g. “In summary, about a quarter of her lunch for three days now — and she says her mouth aches on the left when she chews.”

Suggested drill — what's underneath it?

Write one complaint on the board: "This food is disgusting." Give the class two minutes to list every possible reason that is NOT about the cooking.